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Stress strategies Be nice
to yourself! DonÕt
stress out about being stressed out.
Use the
items on this list as suggestions of easy things you can do to help relax. --------------------------- Diet -
Drink
enough water.
Many people donÕt. Eight glasses each day is the standard recommendation.
Avoid ice water, as itÕs hard on our systems. Warm water is the best. ItÕs
even better with fresh lemon. -
Limit
caffeine.
How? Each day drink a little less to avoid the Òcoffee headacheÓ associated
with coffee withdrawal. The effect of curbing your caffeine intake is
profound. -
Limit
processed sugar
and sweetened foods, desserts and candy. Sugar really wreaks havoc with our
homeostasis, including our immune system. -
Drink
soothing teas
and teasanes. Herbal ÔteasÕ (teasanes) like
chamomile have long been used for relaxation. Also, black and green teas,
even with their caffeine, can help promote relaxation and health. -
Some
spices, such
as cumin, have been used for centuries to help calm the nervous and digestive
systems. -
Magnesium. Could you be magnesium
deficient? If you are, taking magnesium supplements can work wonders to relax
you. If you have heart or kidney problems, check with your doctor before
taking supplements of any kind. -
B
vitamin supplements
can help your body handle stress and relax. -
Limit
alcohol
consumption. In my own experience, IÕve found that after I drink alcohol I
tend to be more stressed the next day. If you drink alcohol you can see if
itÕs true for you, too. (BTW I found a cool 'scientific' blurb about this in some magazine somewhere, too) -
Try
tryptophan.
ItÕs found in turkey and warm milk. Yum. --------------------------- Activities -
Engage
in daily, low-impact, non-competitive exercise. Go for a walk! Ski! Golf! É - Listen to music. Studies show that listening to
music, especially
classical music, but most any kind of music, can relax your body/mind. Hard
rock is an exception. -
Enjoy
what youÕre doing. Notice your attitude. Practice having a positive one. -
Enjoy
NOT doing. Let yourself Ônot doÕ. You donÕt have to be ÔdoingÕ 24/7. Remember
to LET yourself relax. For some of us itÕs not easy to remember to relax. We
need practice. -
Take
a deep breath, and extend your exhalation. Focusing on your breath brings you
back to the present. Extending your exhalation helps you relax. - Get enough sleep each night. -
Take
a nap during the day. -
Limit
TV exposure.
We think watching television is a way to relax, but studies are showing the
opposite. -
Make
snap decisions
Ð Take the stress out of decision making! Research is showing that the
quicker you answer basic questions, the more likely youÕll get the right
answers- and with less stress. See more here. -
Practice
meditation daily. Here are some meditation suggestions: á
just
sit still á
be
aware of your breathing, focus on your breathing, count your breaths, á
practice
deep, relaxed breathing á
do
a Ôbody scanÕ meditation. Take your awareness throughout your body relaxing
each part. á
meditate
to relax each night. Just before sleep is a great time to do a relaxing body
scan. á
do
a ÒTrustÓ meditation. á
Rework
your past. Think of your past experiences in a new (golden and
empowering) light. Our body
remembers the stressful experiences in our life, starting EARLY. It uses
those early stresses to build on, and anticipate future stress. You can
practice changing your story. |
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